AI Chatbot Romances Undermine Real-Life Relationships Among Young Adults

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A BYU and Institute for Family Studies report finds that 1 in 7 young adults in committed U.S. relationships regularly engage in secret romantic interactions with AI chatbots. This trend is linked to decreased relationship stability, secrecy, and emotional harm, highlighting negative social impacts of AI companion technology.[AI generated]

Why's our monitor labelling this an incident or hazard?

The AI system involved is an AI chatbot designed for romantic and sexual companionship, which qualifies as an AI system under the definition. The use of these AI companions has directly or indirectly led to harm in the form of reduced real-life relationship quality, secrecy, and potential relationship instability or breakup, which are harms to communities and individuals. The article provides evidence from a study showing these harms are occurring, not just potential. Hence, this is an AI Incident rather than a hazard or complementary information.[AI generated]
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How do AI romances affect real relationships?

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Why's our monitor labelling this an incident or hazard?
The AI system involved is an AI chatbot designed for romantic and sexual companionship, which qualifies as an AI system under the definition. The use of these AI companions has directly or indirectly led to harm in the form of reduced real-life relationship quality, secrecy, and potential relationship instability or breakup, which are harms to communities and individuals. The article provides evidence from a study showing these harms are occurring, not just potential. Hence, this is an AI Incident rather than a hazard or complementary information.
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Secret soulmates? BYU study finds disturbing trend of secret romances with AI chatbots - East Idaho News

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East Idaho News
Why's our monitor labelling this an incident or hazard?
The event involves AI systems explicitly described as romantic chatbots used by individuals in committed relationships. The use of these AI systems has directly led to harm in the form of decreased relationship stability, secrecy, emotional dependence, and negative impacts on real-life romantic relationships. These harms affect individuals' emotional health and social relationships, which fall under harm to communities and potentially human rights related to emotional well-being. Since the harm is realized and linked to the AI system's use, this qualifies as an AI Incident rather than a hazard or complementary information.
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'The number is only going to go up': Young adults turning to AI for romantic relationships, BYU study finds

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ABC 4
Why's our monitor labelling this an incident or hazard?
The article centers on a research study exploring how AI chatbots are used for romantic and sexual purposes by young adults. While it raises concerns about possible addictive behaviors and relationship impacts, it does not document any realized harm or specific incident caused by AI systems. The discussion is primarily about potential social and psychological effects and future implications, making it a contextual and informative piece rather than a report of an AI Incident or Hazard. Therefore, it fits best as Complementary Information, providing insight into societal responses and understanding of AI's role in human relationships.
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Secret soulmates? BYU study finds disturbing trend of secret romances with AI chatbots - KSLTV.com

2026-05-19
KSLTV.com
Why's our monitor labelling this an incident or hazard?
The event involves the use of AI chatbots designed for romantic companionship, which fits the definition of an AI system. The study documents that this use is leading to secrecy, relationship strain, and emotional harm among young adults in committed relationships, which constitutes harm to communities and individuals' well-being. The harm is realized and directly linked to the AI system's use, fulfilling the criteria for an AI Incident. Although the harm is non-physical, it is significant and clearly articulated, involving violations of trust and potential emotional distress within relationships.
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Secret Soulmates: 1 in 7 Young Adults in Committed Relationships Still Chat with an AI Romantic Companion

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The Herald Journal
Why's our monitor labelling this an incident or hazard?
The article explicitly involves AI systems (AI romantic chatbot companions) whose use by individuals in real-life relationships has led to measurable negative social outcomes, including decreased relationship stability and communication quality. These outcomes constitute harm to communities and individuals' social and emotional well-being, fitting the definition of harm under AI Incident (harm to communities). The harm is realized, not just potential, as the study documents associations between AI companion use and relationship breakdowns. Hence, this is an AI Incident rather than a hazard or complementary information.
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Secret soulmates? BYU study finds disturbing trend of secret romances with AI chatbots - KSLNewsRadio

2026-05-19
KSL NewsRadio
Why's our monitor labelling this an incident or hazard?
The event involves the use of AI chatbots (AI systems) for romantic companionship, which directly affects users' real-life relationships by causing emotional harm, secrecy, and relationship instability. These outcomes qualify as harm to communities and individuals, fitting the definition of an AI Incident. The AI system's use is central to the harm, as it manipulates emotional responses and creates artificial bonds that negatively impact human relationships. Therefore, this is an AI Incident rather than a hazard or complementary information.